
BROTHERHOOD IN BETRAYAL
A Men’s Healing Retreat for Those Who Have Been Cheated On
You didn’t come here because the betrayal was small. You came because it changed you.
When a man is cheated on, the damage is rarely visible from the outside. What breaks first is identity, self-trust, confidence, and the quiet belief that you knew your world. Most men carry that alone. This retreat exists so you don’t have to.
Brotherhood in Betrayal is a Friday - Sunday immersive healing retreat for men who have been cheated on and are ready to face what that betrayal actually did to them, not with platitudes, not with surface-level coping, but with truth, structure, and brotherhood.

This retreat is led by  Sam from Sam’s Healing Podcast, and Adam Nisenson, LMFT, CSAT (The Betrayal Shrink)  two clinicians who specialize in masculine betrayal trauma and men’s recovery after infidelity.
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This is not a motivational weekend.
This is real work, done alongside men who understand.
About
Who This Is For
This retreat is for men who:
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Have been cheated on and feel stuck in anger, numbness, or confusion
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Are exhausted from carrying everything alone
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Feel disconnected from themselves since the betrayal
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Are struggling with intrusive thoughts, comparison, or self-blame
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Want clarity, grounding, and a path forward
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Looking for brotherhood
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Are ready to stop surviving and start rebuilding
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Want to understand what betrayal did to them, not just what happened
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This retreat is men-only and intentionally designed for men whose partners betrayed them through infidelity, emotional affairs, or deception.
What Makes Brotherhood In Betrayal Different
Most men are told to move on, forgive faster, or be strong. None of that addresses what betrayal does to a man’s nervous system, ego, and sense of self.
This retreat is built on the Masculine Betrayal Trauma Recovery framework and focuses on:
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Safety before depth
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Body-based healing, not only talking
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Brotherhood as the antidote to shame and isolation
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Anger as a doorway, not a problem
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Self-trust as the foundation of healing
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You will not be fixed, analyzed, or rushed.
You will be witnessed, grounded, and challenged to reconnect with yourself.
What The Weekends Look Like
Friday Evening
Arrival, grounding, and connection. We begin building safety and brotherhood, introduce the ego wound, and open the space without emotional flooding.
Saturday
A full day of teaching, guided exercises, journaling, body-based anger work, and intrusive thoughts work. This is where men face what they have been carrying and begin releasing it in a safe, structured way.
Sunday
Integration, boundaries, self-trust, and clarity. You leave grounded, not raw, with a clearer sense of who you are and what comes next.
The retreat balances teaching, experiential work, movement, reflection, and group process. Nothing is forced. Participation is always invitational and supported.

This Is Not the End. It’s the Beginning.
You’ve been carrying this longer than you should have. You don’t need to do it alone anymore. Brotherhood in Betrayal is where men stop surviving betrayal and start reclaiming themselves.
What You Leave With
Men leave this retreat saying:
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“I don’t feel crazy anymore.”
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“I finally understand what this did to me.”
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“I feel grounded in my body again.”
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“I trust myself more than I have in a long time.”
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“I’m not alone in this.”
You will not leave with false certainty or rushed forgiveness. You will leave with clarity, grounding, and connection.


